11/5/13 Eric, Rob late 20’s
Coffee
shops are usually an unhurried place to talk with people about their beliefs
and the gospel, but yesterday two separate and almost back-to-back conversations
threw me for a loop. First a businessman
named Eric, then a grad student named Rob.
Both responded to my questions about eternity with disinterest. Both had grown up in Catholic families but
had drifted away from matters of faith and are now happily pursuing their more
immediate goals with little thought of eternal things. Though I talked with each for a good ten
minutes, neither became interested and invited me to sit down at their tables
to talk further like people often do.
Both seemed very content in their comfort zones with no intention of
leaving them. And why should they? It is called “comfort zone” for a
reason! It makes me wonder anew, however,
how can I interest them in the Gospel?
Some would say we need to appeal to people’s “felt needs” – but for
people who are happy in their comfort zones this seems to be more an appeal to
their greed – “You might be happy now but you could be more happy with Jesus!” Or I guess I could take the relational
approach, trying to live in such a way as to show others what they are missing
out on, or by building
trust over time, hoping to be the person they turn to during a time of crisis
when they aren’t so comfortable. I hope
that I am that kind of person for many people; for family, neighbors,
coworkers, and fellow church members.
But my heart also goes out to the blissfully comfortable people I
encounter on the street and in the marketplace, people like Eric and Rob, each
with their own set of beliefs and stories to tell, but my time and ability to
build relationships with all these people is limited. What to do?
Any ideas?
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