12/30/15 Robert, Kevin,
Fiona 30’s
Part
of the fear of reaching out to strangers with the Gospel is one never knows
what to expect, such as how people will react or what kind of questions they
might ask. When I first began I even thought
I might get punched or laughed at for bringing up the subject, and while I
still accept that possibility experience has shown me that strangers are much
kinder than I gave them credit for. A
more realistic concern might be that it can be hard to keep a Gospel conversation
on topic. Yesterday I used a
“trillion dollar” gospel tract to ask a fellow shopper at Menards the trillion
dollar question – “What will happen when we die?” The fellow shopper turned out to be Robert, a
very opinionated talker, and he had strong opinions about religion as well as
politics and different cultures and you name it. But because I had begun the conversation
about religion, it was no problem to listen for a while about his other
opinions, and then get the conversation back on the Gospel. However, during one of his many rabbit trails
about other topics, two other customers, Kevin and Fiona, joined in, and the
conversation quickly focused on politics.
How could I get the conversation back on the Gospel, when two of the
three hadn’t even joined the conversation for that reason? The answer is simple, and can be used in the
middle of almost any conversation – just ask!
Sometimes we Christians try to talk about the Gospel in subtle ways,
“testing the waters” by dropping small hints to see if people are interested in
talking about it. In my experience, it
is far better to be open and honest and, yes, bold, and just ask, as I did with
Kevin and Fiona – “Hey, I have an interesting question. Robert and I were just talking here about
what happens after this life. I’m a
Christian from a church nearby, and I believe it’s important to not just talk about
our beliefs at church but to get out and see what other people think, so what
do you two think about that question?”
After an awkward pause, Kevin, a veteran of several tours of duty in
Iraq and a very opinionated person himself, joined in and we began a long and
robust conversation about the Gospel. Yes, it had its share of rabbit trails, but
because I had boldly asked permission at the start, it was no problem to get
back on track. Don’t just test the waters, dive in! Once you get past that initial awkwardness, people
will appreciate your boldness in taking the lead in a conversation that most
are too timid to start for themselves.
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