1/6/17 Raphael, Dave 20's
Twice in two days, I have initiated outreach
conversations in which I immediately wondered what I had gotten myself
into. At McDonald’s yesterday I
approached a hooded young man finishing his meal at a booth and asked if he
would be willing to talk about his views on what happens after we die. More often than not, I don’t really notice
too many details about people before talking with them, and it isn’t until a
conversation is under way that I realize I might be speaking to someone who is
somewhat unusual. So this young man
turned to me as I began to get his attention and I couldn’t help but notice his
large mid-brow piercing bar, a very large unkept beard, multiple tattoos and
black stains all over his hands and clothes.
But the way he answered quickly took my attention off all that as he
launched into a rapid fire succession of loosely related ideas about life after
death involving quantum physics and his childhood fear of death and
reincarnation with a range from the very simple to deeply profound. At first I wondered if he was homeless and possibly
mentally disturbed, but with some patient listening and responsive questioning
I began to see a logic to his beliefs and how they have developed over
time. His name was Rafael and he is an
artist from Los Angeles, the paint stains evidence of some of his recent
work. He works in a Chicago after-school
program and loves to teach and communicate through art. We talked over an hour as it took time to
work through his random thoughts and focus on the basic biblical narrative, but
he was very open to gaining a better understanding of the basic Gospel message
which he had long ago dismissed as irrelevant.
Today at a laundromat I spoke to a similar young man,
Dave, who carried on a conversation while rapidly sorting his laundry at
various machines, avoiding almost all eye contact but speaking about profound scientific
theories and theology and philosophy without missing a beat while I followed
him trying to hear and carry on the conversation. Dave grew up Baptist, wanted to be a pastor
and made it to his final year at a seminary, dropped out for a masters in
church history, began to work on his PhD but dropped out for a career in
subatomic research. He now claims to be
an atheist. I felt he had some signs of being on the
autism spectrum, being able to focus deeply on certain subjects but somewhat
socially awkward. I don’t know that I
was able to tell him anything he hasn’t already heard about the Gospel, but I
think I was able to “put a rock in his shoe” about some of his atheistic
assumptions.
What strikes me as important about these two
conversations is that these men were definitely diverse learners who need to
hear the Gospel just like anyone else, but maybe they need to hear it in different
ways. Gospel truths need to be shared
and shared often, and they also need to be shared in a multitude of ways. Whether I was able to share some truths with Rafael
and Dave in a way they could receive them may be only for God to know, but that’s
okay with me. God can bring to mind what was shared at just the right time and
in just the right way for even the most diverse learners. Jesus promised in John 14:26: “But the
Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you
all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.” I believe we just need to obediently put
ourselves out there and be as willing to listen as we are to speak.
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