10/7/12 Josh, 20
A
student named Josh, out for a smoke outside his college dorm, agreed to answer
my questions about his beliefs, calling himself an agnostic. He had grown up in a small-town Baptist
church, believes himself to be gay, and doesn't believe he can be a Christian
as a result. I asked if we could see
what the Bible would say about him and his standing with God outside of the
issue of homosexuality. Josh agreed, and
afterward he could see that according to the Ten Commandments he would be a
sinner deserving of condemnation just like everyone else. By setting aside the issue of homosexuality
and using the law to help him see his sin and need for forgiveness, it was easy
to help him see God's love in Jesus. At
this point he asked what I thought about homosexuality and whether he might be
accepted at my church. Chicago's gay
community is centered on the north side, so this has not been too much of an
issue for us, but I told him, "We believe that acting on the desire, not
the desire itself, is sinful, so we would treat it like any other sin" "Do you believe gays can be
changed?" he asked. "I think
some people become gay as a result of their own personal choices or life
experiences, and might be able to change. Others have a natural tendency toward
homosexuality as a result of man's sin and condemnation in general, and they
can live out a right relationship with God through a celibate lifestyle, just
as Paul chose to do". Josh feels he
has been born gay and had no choice about it, but was very positive about all I
told him because I had first laid down the foundational truth that all are under
condemnation because of our sin and that we all need forgiveness. He said he doesn't feel bitter toward God for giving
him homosexual desires nor because the Bible teaches that homosexuality is
sinful, because he knows God doesn't owe us anything, that we are just fortunate
to be alive. "You've given me a lot
to think about - thanks for having the courage to come up and talk to me about
all this." I'm glad I did. Will you pray for Josh?
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