1/10/13 Sam 14
In
answer to my questions while grocery shopping, a teenager named Sam told me he
doesn’t believe in heaven, that when we die, that’s it. “How long have you believed this?” I
asked. Sam had grown up in a Catholic
home and had decided to deny God’s existence about a year ago. “Was there anyone who influenced you to do
this or did you decide for yourself?”
Sam told me he had thought it through and just decided that, although
religion might be good for teaching people morals to live by, he didn’t like
the restrictions it put on him. Nothing
in his appearance or attitude indicated that he was the rebellious type. He was very respectful and told me he loves
to read. I could tell he had been “counting the cost” of believing
in God and realizes the implications of
having an ultimate Creator and Author of all moral law that we are accountable
to, and had decided that it would be easier if he just said that God doesn’t
exist. To me, that’s actually more
honest than saying one believes in God but refusing to obey Him as God. I challenged Sam to continue counting the
cost of belief in God, but to also consider the cost of NOT believing. He is only about 14 or 15, and I told him I
was impressed that he is considering such things at such a young age. God is truly working in his heart and is not
finished with him yet.
Some skeptics of Christianity
scoff that faith is only a cultural phenomenon, not a spiritual one. They say that Christian parents indoctrinate
their children, eliminating any other options, and their children have no
choice but to become Christian. But most
children are far more intelligent and the secular culture around us is far more
influential than these skeptics will admit.
They can and will think for themselves like Sam demonstrated to me. Throughout their formative years it would be
very difficult to indoctrinate one’s children to the point that they have no
other options. On the other hand, if
parents don’t take an active role in teaching their children the things of God,
their children will very likely be indoctrinated by the larger secular world
culture around us. It should be no surprise that
faithful Christian parents are often blessed to have believing children. We are promised “Train up a child in the way
he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” (Prov. 22:6) and we should faithfully do so. Nevertheless, a word of caution: I have met a
lot of young adults who have grown up attending church but are now in active rebellion
against God. Their main complaint is the
hypocrisy and untested faith of their parents and other adult church members who
have isolated themselves within the church culture and who are not actively
engaged in ministry to people of the secular culture around them.
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