1/26/17 Alex 20's
On a cold and rainy sidewalk, I think I may have found a clue to church
involvement for the next generation.
Alex, a 20-something, responded to my questions about his beliefs in the
light of day, and our dialogue went well past dark. As we talked, it began to rain three times,
but we barely noticed. It wasn’t until
afterward on my way home that I realized that I was wet and shivering with
cold. But toward the end of our
conversation, Alex said something that warmed my soul.
Alex was a military kid, and as his family moved from one location to
another, his father brought them to visit different churches and denominations
within Christianity. He also made sure
they experienced other religions, so Alex felt like he had a pretty good handle
on religion and was now adopting his own set of beliefs that most closely
resembled Buddhism. With a pretty
extensive religious background, what he said that warmed my heart was “Now
that’s what church should be like!”
Alex was referring to our conversation, the honest give and take of beliefs
without arguments or disrespect. He
understood that as a Christian I want to see him come to faith in Christ, but in
the meantime that I just wanted to have a conversation, not give a
presentation. No scripted liturgy, no
rituals, no grand building, no fancy organ, no worship band, no fog
machine. We had talked about all these
things, but what he was looking for and didn’t find in his church experience
was authentic conversation or mission.
Alex is part of a generation that may be the most savvy to marketing
gimmicks in history. This means they are
quick to detect a fraud, a sales pitch, a bait and switch, hypocrisy. They are looking for authenticity, and
sometimes make the mistake of believing it to be a tattoo and a dark past, brokenness
as a badge of honor, or commitment to an obscure cause. And churches also make mistakes in trying to
be authentic.
But nothing is more authentic than being a people on a mission to serve
Someone greater than ourselves. We are made
to be on the battlefield, not on the sidelines.
And in so doing, the next generation can catch a vision for the authenticity
they are looking for. To be authentic
means to be fully human, to be fully alive and in the moment, and no one was
more authentic than Jesus, who calls us to authentic relationship. How can we begin to be authentic like
Jesus? “If anyone would come after me,
let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me" Luke 9:23
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