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Love of God, Fear of God, Judgment, Paradox, Day in Court



6/21/19               Victor    (see conversation HERE)

Should we relate to God as our heavenly Judge or our heavenly Father?  After all, is He not both?  How should that play out in our day to day relationship with God?

A passing cyclist at the park, Victor, kindly stopped on his way home from work and agreed to have a conversation about his religious beliefs.  He told how, after growing up Catholic, he began to visit a protestant church and was very encouraged by all the ways the Bible related to his everyday life and problems, until he began to realize that it also made him feel guilty for his sins.  He stopped attending church at that point, and really hasn’t looked back.

I think maybe at first he was encouraged by the possibility of relating to God as his heavenly Father, until he also realized God is also our Judge.  What to do?  As far as I could tell, he decided to distance himself from both.

As I see it, the problem comes when we view our relationship with God as something to be evaluated at a final judgement – a “court date” if you will – with our conduct in this life all leading up to that one big moment when our eternal future will be determined.  With that court date hanging over our heads, it would be pretty hard to relate to God as our heavenly Father.

Yet Jesus teaches us to do just that.  Just after teaching his followers to pray to their “Father in Heaven”, he said “Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”  (Luke 11)

Jesus taught about the love of the Father, but he also went on to teach about what it means to have a healthy fear of God: “I will show you whom you should fear: Fear him who, after your body has been killed, has authority to throw you into hell. Yes, I tell you, fear him.”  (Luke 12)

So how can we have a right relationship with God that includes both the fear of our Judge and the love of our Father?  The answer, I believe, is to “settle out of court”.  Instead of waiting in fear for our formal trial where all eternity hangs in the balance, in Christ we are given the opportunity to informally settle out of court here and now, to enter into peace with God long before that fateful Day.

Paul, writing to the believers in Rome, describes it like this:  “Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand.”  (Romans 5)

This “grace in which we now stand” Paul wrote of is the Amazing Grace that the song speaks of, the grace and peace with God which we can walk in and live the rest of our lives in once we have “settled out of court” with our heavenly Judge.  This is the same grace that turns our Judge into our heavenly Father, who will kindly “give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him.”  And it is by His Spirit that we can live a life in which the fear of the Judge is cast out by the love of the Father, because, as we read in 1 John 4, “…perfect love drives out fear.”

So my prayer for Victor and others like him is that he can enter into that peace with God that Jesus makes possible, and live a life filled with the love for the Father that God intends to replace the fear of the Judge.


Thanks, Victor, for allowing me to record our conversation!  It’s HERE at https://youtu.be/zdUMYTBiIW8

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